Lasting Lesbian Love is a journey, not a destination. L3's boutique, private and personalized matchmaking, singles and dating coaching services, events and programs were designed by and for MIDLIFE, heart-centered lesbian and bisexual women who are ready to 'Find their L3 wife' and 'Create their L3 life'. Women-who-love-women who are ready to create the most satisfying, lasting and enjoyable relationship experience of their lifetime will find expert support and like-minded women here.

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When it comes to sticky situations, and even when I can't ask her directly, I say to myself 'what would Barb do?' - 32yo artist, Mid-Atlantic US
Barb is helping me be okay with being single, focusing me on preparing for retirement and making positive friendships in the lesbian community. - 68yo, Nurse, Southeast US
I was finally able to break free from a 33 year relationship that had been over a long time, with Barb's help. - 56, government official, Southeast US
Working with Barb Elgin is the most loving experience. She's the big sister I never had. - 31, medical professional, Northeast US
Thank you for your superb coaching - which helped me "find" my partner living a 14-minute drive from me. - 72yo, retired, Northeast US
Barb helped me restore my confidence as I re-entered the dating world after my partner of 20 plus years passed away. -  55yo professional, Southwest, US
I am so grateful for Barb coming into my life when she did. She totally changed my thinking. - Manager, 38
Barb is beyond awesome and brings a wealth of experience. - Retired Teacher
I have a lot of self-esteem issues, Barb took me step-by-step to overcome them. - Librarian and Mom, 39
Thank God Barb has created a place where we can truly be ourselves. - Chiropractor, 44